During this Memorial Day, my family will stop by a forgotten cemetery to clean the tombstones of Vet's. You would be surprised how many Vet's graves are completely covered in gray/black pollution, green lichen or overgrown by grass and weeds. We try to always clean them and leave behind some flowers and a leave a penny. Why a penny? Below are the traditions for leaving coins on Vet's graves While visiting some cemeteries you may notice that headstones marking certain graves have coins on them, left by previous visitors to the grave. These coins have significant meanings when left on the headstones of those who gave their life while serving in America's military. A coin left on a headstone or at the grave site is meant as a message to the deceased soldier's family that someone else has visited the grave to pay respect. PENNY: Leaving a penny at the grave means simply that you visited. NICKEL: Leaving a nickel indicates that you and the deceased trained at boot camp together. DIME: Leaving a dime means you served with him in some capacity. QUARTER: Leaving a quarter at the grave, means that you were with the soldier when he was killed. According to tradition, the money left at graves in national cemeteries and state veterans cemeteries is eventually collected, and the funds are put toward maintaining the cemetery or paying burial costs for indigent veterans. In the US, this practice became common during the Vietnam war, due to the political divide in the country over the war; leaving a coin was seen as a more practical way to communicate that you had visited the grave than contacting the soldier's family, which could devolve into an uncomfortable argument over politics relating to the war. Some Vietnam veterans would leave coins as a "down payment" to buy their fallen comrades a beer or play a hand of cards when they would finally be reunited. The tradition of leaving coins on the headstones of military men and women can be traced to as far back as the Roman Empire.
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Just about everyone knows that if you are anywhere in Webster County, WV, then the chances of meeting a Hamrick or a Gregory is VERY high. So, on my search for my 3rd Great Grandfather, I landed at Meadowland Cemetery looking for a Gregory. I did not find the ONE I was looking for but I did find William Given Gregory.
I highlighted ONE because believe it or not, William is the ONLY Gregory buried in Meadowland. I find that fascinating. His wife, Rebecca Sands Gregory is buried elsewhere in the Cool Springs Cemetery in Webster County, WV. William was the son of Col. Isaac Gregory (1772-1852) and Sarah Given Gregory (1766-1836). William was a Devout Methodist (a very popular religion in Webster County, WV) and lived most of his adult life on the Elk River not too far from Meadowland Cemetery. William was elected Sheriff of Webster County, WV in October 1865. William and Rebecca had eight children: Nancy, Margaret, Sarah, Jane, Adam, Elmira, Mary and Levicy. |
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